For tested ram, look here:
For graphics cards, You are not going to find much. And, any new card that claims backward compatibility may not really be backward compatible.
I would take a look at the used market.
While the board, with the appropriate processor, has graphics, if you do get an add-on graphics card look for one that is PCIe 2.0 based per the expansion options here:
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