Did you try TBB allocator from TBB 4.0 (preferable, 4.0 update 2)? For 4.0 we made significant changes in controlling virtual address space, and there is a hope that the changes can help in your case.
The Test-Case created by Wallace in 2009 uses TBBversion 2.1 ( some TBB headers are included in the VS project):
#define TBB_VERSION_MAJOR 2
#define TBB_VERSION_MINOR 1
It really makes sence to try the latest version 4.0of TBB.