Computer and monitor can't find each other when waking up

[Rollo]

NUC12i5, Windows 11pro, Dell S2719H

A new machine has gotten worse over time (a few weeks). Whenever the screen is off due to sleep or hibernate or power off, when I restart it or awaken it it doesn't find a monitor or the monitor can't find it. If I pull out the HDMI cable from the nuc it and reinsert it it almost always finds the monitor or vice versa. In device manager the update driver function says that it is appropriate driver. I've never seen such a problem before.

Thanks for reading my post

[LeonWaksman]

In order to get better information about your system, please download the Intel System Support Utility (SSU). Run the SSU scan (check "Everything") and save the results. The .txt file with the results please attach to your post.
In the meantime instead of disconnecting the HDMI cable, use Windows shortcut to awake your monitor: Windows logo key + Ctrl + Shift + B.

Leon